26 Apr Follow this Process & I Guarantee You’ll Do Work That Lights You on Fire
“Change is the end result of all true learning.”
I can guarantee you find your passion. I can guarantee you do work you love.
Don’t believe me? Then you probably aren’t ready to work your ass off.
If you are, then read on.
When I tell people I write and coach on how to find work you love, so many of them scream back “I need your help!”
I calmly respond with a question: “well have you read any of the 100+ books out there on purpose and passion?”
I proceed to hear pins drop.
It’s not that complicated…
In the past 8 years I’ve tested just about everything under sun when it comes to finding my passion and doing work I actually give a sh*t about. I now spend close to 100% of my working hours doing things I love. I am grateful, but I don’t think it’s a coincidence.
Getting here wasn’t easy and it wasn’t fast. There’ve been plenty of late nights (and there still are), but it’s been a ton of fun.
And one thing’s for sure. The fact that I’m doing what lights me on fire right now, does not by any means mean it will be the same thing ten years from now. That’s the best part! I almost guarantee it won’t. At least not exactly the same.
As long as you are currently spending your time doing what you believe you are best at and you are meant to do, that’s a life well lived.
Every better yet, that’s excitement!
Literally I think I’ve tried everything. Some include:
- Starting businesses
- Traveling the world
- Getting to know people in all walks of life
- Hiring a coach
- Being a coach
- Taking negotiation seminars
- Attending Tony Robbins events
- Reading books- a lot of books. Mainly personal development.
- Doing workbooks
- Taking personality tests
- Taking personal strengths test
- Attempting at first seemingly impossible fitness challenges
- Meeting entrepreneurs
- Working for companies with 10,000+ employees
- Working for companies with 12 employees
- Working for companies with 1 employee
- Writing blog articles, stories, ideas, journals
- Taking univeristy courses
I could go on. Hopefully you get the point. More on my experiments here (bottom half of page).
In all this there is a common thread. There is one thing that will ensure you the very best chance at finding what you love to do and actually living it.
You ready for it?
Become obsessed with learning. Learn to love it. Do it every day in some way. One day it might be reading or watching a TED talk, listening to a podcast, having lunch with a new person, interviewing a business owner or sitting down and being completely still for 30 minutes.
Learn about yourself in every way possible. Test what you’re capable of physically (you think you can’t do a marathon–then sign up for one). Do the impossible. Test how you process information. Do a strengths finder test. Do the the What Color Is Your Parachute Workbook. Myers Briggs. Johnson O’Connor Aptitude. Do it all!
Then actually make something with what you learn.
The process is ridiculously simple:
Step 1: Learn
Step 2: Experiment
Step 3: Repeat
Step 4: Do what you love
Step 5: When restless, Repeat
The more you know about yourself, the more you will know what lights you on fire.
Most people don’t get to know themselves because it takes a lot of work and it can be scary. It can be terrifying to think you actually are in control of being able to discover and spend time on what you love.
But you do have the control. We all do. No one can stop us from understanding who we are, what we are amazing at and what keeps us from sleeping at night. And once we are congruent with this, there is very little chance of stopping someone from getting out and finding a way to apply it to the world.
But if you have no idea what you want or what you’re good at, then why would you ever want to work hard for it? You wouldn’t.
It all starts with learning!
I watch a TED talk most mornings on the bus to work. I read a few pages of an interesting book most nights. I share meals with big thinkers every week (and my therapeutic wife every night!). I write new ideas in my journal almost daily. It’s become a way of life.
Ideas exist in learning.
I get at least a dozen ideas every time I pick up a book (you should see the scribbles in my margins), watch a video or spend a few hours with someone who inspires me.
If you hate reading, then do something about it. Take a speed reading class (that’s what I did and I liked it so much that now I started teaching them on the occasional weekend). Subscribe to Philosopher’s Notes (CliffsNotes for personal development). Pick a few inspiring blogs and follow them.
The best part is you make up the curriculum!
Your path is waiting…
The education is out there and it’s everywhere. You just have to choose to do something with it.
There are no more excuses.
Make it a daily practice.
Take it all in.
Start building something that actually matters – to you and the world.
“Commit yourself to lifelong learning. The most valuable asset you’ll ever have is your mind and what you put into it.
What do you do to constantly learn about yourself? What’s been your best education? Share your #1 resource in the comments. Let me know how I can help!
Anyone going to Omaha this weekend?
I’ll be out in Omaha for Warren Buffett’s Annual Meeting – one of our favorite weekends of the year! Leave a comment if you’re going. I’d love to connect. Expect a post on big lessons from the weekend coming soon!
John BeadlePosted at 23:15h, 26 April
I have felt the same urge to bring passion and meaning to my life. Love the advice, I’ll have to look into the workbooks you suggested.
I have found keeping a journal and writing down your thoughts extremely helpful as well. Toastmasters is another great self improvement program worth joining. Its amazing how many opportunities present themselves when you place yourself into a new/challenging situation.
Once again, thanks for the great post. Let me know next time you hold another one of your speed reading classes (it would also make a great post).
ScottPosted at 07:41h, 28 April
Keeping a journal has been huge for me too. Good call on Toastmasters. I did it for about a year a few years back and it definitely brought out a new part of me. Great additions!
As for speed reading, checkout out irisreading.com and here are a couple posts I’ve written on the topic:
HughPosted at 09:17h, 27 April
Thanks for sharing all of these great resources, some of which I know and some I have yet to learn about.
I too am a huge fan of reading – books, awesome blogs, Harvard Business Review, magazines like Entrepreneur and Inc., and anything I can get my hands on. In this day and age, there’s really no limit to the education we can give ourselves, and most of it is free! The only “problem” I have is that there’s so much out there I want to read and learn about, but I have to be careful to also spend a lot of time DOING instead of just reading, learning, being inspired. That’s been a key for me – dedicate time to DOING something with everything that I have learned.
ScottPosted at 07:43h, 28 April
HBR articles are huge. Thanks for adding that.
You are right on with the problem. It’s all about DOING. No question about it! That’s where the “Experiment” part of the above process comes in. You have to get out there and do and test. Without that, you’re usually wasting your time.
NickPosted at 09:40h, 27 April
Obviously your univeristy courses didn’t work 🙂
ScottPosted at 07:44h, 28 April
There were some benefits but it was mainly around learning how to interact with others and understand social situations. Met some great people too. Sadly the real learning usually has to be self administered. I hope that changes one day. I plan to be a part of the change.
David WilliamPosted at 10:41h, 27 April
It really does all come down to passion. I’m not sure why people are afraid to pursue their passions. I guess it also matters if you are willing to believe in yourself.
So the takeaway? Be passionate and believe in yourself.
Trite, but true 🙂
ScottPosted at 07:45h, 28 April
Believe in yourself and have a couple very close mates who wholeheartedly believe in you as well. Passion, or excitement is the easiest barometer. If that’s not there, then you should probably be moving on to the next ‘experiment’… No, you definitely should!
Perfecting ParenthoodPosted at 11:34h, 27 April
You’re right about passion leading to learning and vice versa. I am all about learning a lot about many different topics. It creates a very interesting life! There is something to be said for focus though, which is what I lack. Too many good ideas and not enough time to implement.
ScottPosted at 07:47h, 28 April
Ha ha. Awesome you have all the ideas. Knowing which to tackle is a struggle for me as well.
That problem will come up and focus is no small topic. Leo’s recent book on it is awesome, from Zen Habits.
Here’s something I recently wrote. Pick any one of the things on this list and your focus will go through the roof.
LarsPosted at 12:19h, 27 April
Thank you SO much for linking to that speed reading site. I’m in Dallas, and was thrilled to see that they have a class here in a couple of weeks. I’m signing up right now.
I’ve been looking for a real speed reading class for at least a couple of years now, so I’m very excited about it.
ScottPosted at 07:48h, 28 April
Perfect timing! My speed went up by about 3x after I took my first Iris class. The stuff is simple and it works. The guys who run the company are really good people and passionate about what they’re doing. Have fun out there!
Jen LiliensteinPosted at 16:23h, 27 April
Love this post–and live by the message. Here are the resources we use on Kidzmet for our monthly parent newsletter and teacher/student matching. While our site is to help kids discover who they’re meant to become, our resource list can be used by adults to re-discover their inner children. (AKA the ones with the energy and imagination and passion you may have lost along the way.)
Hope it’s helpful!
ScottPosted at 07:50h, 28 April
What you are doing with Kidzmet is literally the stuff that is going to change the world. Thank you! That is where it has to start- at an age before the world starts to tell you things are impossible or that you have to be this or that.
Thanks for sharing and please keep kicking ass with this. The world needs it!
Jen LiliensteinPosted at 18:28h, 28 April
Awww, shucks. Thanks, Scott! Keep writing inspirational pieces like this one to continue to motivate the startup founders like me who use your blog as our own personal pep rally. 🙂
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George MihalyPosted at 16:27h, 27 April
I love the message. Thank you! -George-
ScottPosted at 07:50h, 28 April
Pleasure mate! Let us know what you do with it…
WillPosted at 19:45h, 27 April
Thanks again for another awesome post. I look forward to each post and KNOW that what I want is possible – it will just take a lot of hard work and learning (and a little courage).
One of my goals this year has been to read at least one book a week for 2011. So far I am on track. One of the books I read (and purchased) was The Strength Finder 2.0 book. I had read the original one but never took the test to determine my strengths (although just by reading the descriptions I knew a few that were at my core). I bought the second book and learned a lot about what role I like to have in whatever venture I undertake – gathering and dispensing good information. Then, I “experiment” with any new knowledge and then evaluate the results. This is what I do
Keep up the writing because you do help!
ScottPosted at 07:52h, 28 April
One book a week!!! That’s huge. Can’t imagine what you’re learning. You are going to get a TON out to Strengths Finder 2.0 once you take the assessment. It has made all the difference for me in the past few years. It guides a lot of my decisions. Can’t wait to hear what you think!
Stephanie RogersPosted at 22:02h, 29 April
Scott and Will, I’m a huge fan of StrengthsFinders – all the books and the assessment tool. I currently work in a corporate knowledge management job, but I’m beginning the process to become a professional coach with an emphasis on strengthsfinder and also on coaching people to get in touch with their inner creativity. I agree that hard work, learning and applying what we learn is so critical to making huge changes (for the better) in our lives. 🙂
Thanks for another great post, Scott! I’m always inspired by what you have to say and reminded that hard work is a key piece of the process. Also courage to break free from our traditional roles.
Charlotte Rains DixonPosted at 15:14h, 28 April
As a lifelong reader, I love this post. I’d also like to point out that reading fiction can be a learning experience–and it also can transport you to another world!
ScottPosted at 14:22h, 02 August
Agreed and admittedly I could use some more fiction 😉
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The best education I ever got was taking entry-level plumbing — it was a complete u-turn for me (I had a BA in History and was working in a library at the time). I learned that I enjoyed working with my hands and that I was good at working to code and following detailed instructions. I also learned that I didn’t want to work in that trade so I returned to the library but it boosted my confidence tenfold.
I wanted to thank you for a great summary — I am going to blog about this post and send people your way. (Hopefully it’s OK to quote part of your post.) Now to dig through the rest of your site!
ScottPosted at 14:24h, 02 August
You are more than welcome to quote and link back Cheryl. Thanks! Very cool that you took such a different route to learn about something you might like. That’s what life’s all about. Constantly testing and learning!
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This is a great post. Most of the time your posts are as if you are writing to me.
Keep up the good work!
Greetings from India!
ScottPosted at 14:25h, 02 August
Haha. Then you are in the right place Prasannaa! So glad this stuff’s helpful for you. I’m hope you stick around for what’s to come!
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My problem is that i learn from my mistakes but I forget or lazy enough to apply it the 3rd or the 4th time. And again I am back to square one. so can you help me with this.