
12 Sep Choosing Your Fight & How to Become the Man (or Woman) in the Arena…
“The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena…”
– Theodore Roosevelt
Here’s to the Man (or Woman) in the Arena…
I took the above picture when I ran with the bulls in Pamplona, Spain in July of 2004, during their annual Festival de Sanfermines (also know as El Encierro). We took a very aggressive starting position, which involved bulls being a lot closer to me than I’d care to experience.
But what most non-runners don’t realize is that the craziest part of El Encierro isn’t the half-mile uphill cobblestone sprint to the arena.
Not even close.
The craziness really starts once you’re actually in the arena. Where hundreds of daring (read: loco) folks dance, run and ‘play’ with the bulls as they charge into the arena one-by-one. People get trampled and others get flung into the air by the quick flick of horns and neck. The animals pretty much have their way with those willing to chance it in the center.
Had I known the level of chaos involved in that run (literally no rules applied), I would have never shown up that morning.
But such is the case with any experience worth having.
Especially when pursuing the work we can’t not do – When deciding to set foot in the arena and battle for a cause we deeply believe in.
So today I want to honor YOU.
For having the courage to be on this journey with me. For agreeing to the 15 Rules of OUR Revolution and for being the heart of our movement to get the world doing the work that makes us come alive.
It’s not easy work. But I believe it’s worth every fiber of our effort. Because when done together, this is what has the power to change the world.
So today I want to share a little gift with you. It’s an excerpt from Theodore Roosevelt’s “Citizenship In A Republic” speech, delivered at the Sorbonne, in Paris, France on April 23, 1910.
I have this permanently etched into a bowl on my desk. Enjoy!
The Man (or Woman) In The Arena…
It is not the critic who counts;
not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles,
or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena,
whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood;
who strives valiantly; who errs,
who comes short again and again,
because there is no effort without error and shortcoming;
but who does actually strive to do the deeds;
who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions;
who spends himself in a worthy cause;
who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement,
and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly,
so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.
-Theodore Roosevelt
Thank You For Joining Me In the Arena
250 of you took that to the next level in jumping into our Connect with Anyone community in the past few days – I congratulate you for that and am grateful for your company.
And the other tens of thousands of you, now from every country in the world, deserve just as much credit – for deciding to show up and be a part of what we’ve built at Live Your Legend.
I love you guys. I love what we stand for. I love fighting the good fight with you all.
And most of all I love that we’re in the arena together – and that we’re only just getting started. It would be impossible on my own.
And for those of you who feel you’re still stuck in the stadium, please reread the above quote.
Now’s your chance to take the step from victim, to main character. From passive observer to the author of your own story.
More than anything it’s a step in mindset. A change in thinking that ripples across your whole world. A ripple that transforms the way you think, the way you act and the way you show up in the world.
That’s what it means to be in the arena. That’s what it means to live your legend.
I believe the only real victory comes from deciding to live your life right there. Right here. Front and center. Doing what you know matters – to you, and in turn, to the world.
It’s not what specifically comes from being in the arena, because that will always have its ups and downs. What matters is you decided to enter in the first place. To stand tall and lean into the uncertainty.
We do that together and we can have a lot of fun.
We also just might end up changing the world.
Thank you for joining us in the arena.
-Scott
What are you doing to live in the arena? Share & inspire us in the comments!
P.S. For those of you who have yet to join our Revolution, you can do so on this page (it’s free!). We’d love to have you.
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Tatum
Posted at 18:18h, 12 SeptemberThank you so much for your amazing posts! I’ve been inspired by you and others with your commitment (including myself, I’ve realised!) to step into the arena. I gave myself the gift of a life coach last month and I am working passionately now towards my greatest vision for this life. My challenge has been taking my dreams out of my head and placing them in the real world, which has meant finding courage to reach out and connect with others. I’m learning that this is the greatest catalyst for growth! WOOHOOOO!! So thank you for being a great motivator in that regard. 2014 is going to be the year that I participate in the “Connect With Anyone” course. I CAN’T WAIT!! Until then, I’ll continue gaining inspiration and energy for action from Live Your Legend. Living with passion!!
Laure Merlin
Posted at 22:17h, 12 SeptemberThank you Scott & commenters, wow yes it is so scary Leah!
Crowdfunding my app (to CHANGE THEir WORLD, starting with adult-kids relationships) in a week, for me that’ll be quite an arena experience! But whether this move succeeds or fail, let me warn myself: I ain’t gonna stop before it’s done!!! The fear just makes it a little longer.
Hugs and cheers and go for it!
Lance
Posted at 14:56h, 12 SeptemberI LOVE that quote as well! I first heard that in college when I sold books door to door for the Southwestern company (crazy times!). It’s a powerful quote though and one that I continue to have up as well 🙂
Scott
Posted at 15:43h, 12 SeptemberThat’s definitely being in the arena – Good to hear you started early!
Tiffani
Posted at 15:01h, 12 SeptemberThank you, thank you, thank you for this post…as I read this, with tears in my eyes, I am reminded that being in the arena is not a cake walk and that living MY legend is really quite legendary!!!!
Scott
Posted at 15:44h, 12 SeptemberWow Tiffani. This makes me so so happy. Here’s to tears of motivation! Glad to have you with us 🙂
Tony
Posted at 15:17h, 12 SeptemberThat quote is what drives me to keep going especially when I feel the fear of failure on the back of my neck ,when I first heard that quote it drought tears to my eyes cause I felt it is where I am in my life.
Scott
Posted at 15:44h, 12 SeptemberI could feel it through my whole body the first time I read it. Congrats on being THERE!
Leah Hynes
Posted at 17:50h, 12 September…and when you realise that everyone in the arena is just as scared as you are, you can choose to keep on taking action in the face of that fear, because it’s just part of the journey.
One of my favourite posts so far Scott because the impact of getting in the arena cannot be underestimated. It is everything.
Here’s to the ripple effect 😉
Leah 🙂
Meenakshi
Posted at 01:39h, 13 SeptemberI agree Leah…the journey get much comfortable & u acquire the confidence to not to leave the arena & fight with best of your abilities…
🙂
Miguel Lyons-Cavazos
Posted at 18:29h, 12 SeptemberVery cool quote–nice!
I left a very lucrative job in Silicon Valley to get back into teaching. The type of teaching I do gets refined all the time as this thing evolves. First it was teaching drums cuz that’s what I was best at, and then it evolved into a parallel performance practice along with the teaching practice. At the time I wasn’t expecting that (it felt like cheating, as in “wait, this is too much fun”) but it makes total sense now.
Now the teaching has evolved to this pretty unique thing (much as I love and admire many school band directors, that’s never been me). And, I’ve learned that I’m all about process–it’s not what I do but how I do it. Oh yeah, and the ‘why’ 😉
The journey continues, it feels great to be along with y’all for the ride!
Nikki Smith
Posted at 19:52h, 12 SeptemberThanks Scott,
I agree with Leah, I think this is one of my favourite posts of yours!
I have heard this quote by a speaker at an event four times in the last 6 months or so and everytime I hear it, it sinks in a bit deeper!
I now know in my heart not just my head that being in the Arena for me means doing experiments, trying things out. They are ABSOLUTELY vital for me and I’m feeling much less fear about the outcome of these experiments.
So Arena experiments right now are saying yes to picking up two instruments and playing in a friends band. If I didn’t view it as an experiment I would have said no.
I hosted my first dinner for my coaching clients where I invited a fabulous restaurant owner/actor/friend to speak as a mentor at his amazing restaurant. It was AWESOME! It certainly was by no means perfect, in fact I got feedback on how it could be better in the car on the way home 🙂 I had been meaning to do it for a year and because I now saw it as an Arena experiment, I simply got on with it and did it.
I’m getting a lot of feedback from clients and their friends about wanting to know more about beating burnout! So I’m thinking a virtual conference on that topic!
Any cheerleading is WELCOME on that one! 🙂
Miles
Posted at 20:21h, 12 SeptemberI started a blog. I’m writing and getting out of my comfort zone. Hitting the publish button is getting easier but me perfectionist tendencies beg me not to.
I’m taking little actions steps daily to build the life that I want. I’m getting to know myself and paving my own path through the darkness.
Being uncomfortable is huge. Building a sense of community is even bigger. It’s also based largely on feeling uncomfortable for a moment in time but the rewards are worth it.
I’ve been getting your emails for while but I haven’t jumped into the community like I know I could. Simply writing this comment is my small way of changing that.
Cheers to you all!
Meenakshi
Posted at 01:35h, 13 SeptemberThanks Scott,
as I opened my eyes early morning i first checked my mailbox & received this article and it made my day wonderful.
I was again motivated to not lose hope & think positive.
The quote in the beginning is truly inspiring & it deserves to be on the room wall of anybody who wants to change the world & make a difference.
I am going to take a print & fix it in my room right after office today.
Thanks again & keep this wonderful work up….
Toni
Posted at 03:30h, 13 SeptemberThanks for your project. I think is great!
Indeed I like to do it myself, that is helping others to become what they want.
Now I am writing a letter of recommendation for a great profesional and friend who deserves my help.
Ben
Posted at 03:32h, 13 SeptemberHi Scott,
You are dripping with it and l just love hanging with you and this great crowd! Great post once again! Am already working in the Arena working with high school n univeristy students. I give group coaching sessions five hours during the week days and two hours over the weekend. My team’s small blog is up, not much posted there but it is taking shape!
That is a qoute that is a must share! This weekend l have three hours coaching session with about five hundred university students. Am bringing them into to fold…..Live your legend! The main theme is ” HOW TO DISCOVER! DESIRE AND DOMINATE YOUR CORNER OF THE MARKET OF LIFE”. It means getting on the Arena and trying things out without fear!
Cheers and continue the great work! It rocks!
Victoria Dixon
Posted at 03:48h, 13 SeptemberIncredible!
Thank you for sharing this quote, Scott. I’ve never come across it before and you wouldn’t believe how great your timing is with this 🙂
This has really made a difference to me today, thanks again.
Vic
Cazz
Posted at 04:07h, 13 SeptemberLOVING that quote Scott! It’s sinking deep and reminds me of a LOT of people that I look up too. I see myself there too.
Made me think of Roger Federer, greatest tennis player of all time going through the down swing of his illustrious career. And then that raging bull I’m sure you know, his rival Rafa Nadal, who also happens to be his best friend.
Here’s to recognizing greatness! But here is also to recognizing that same greatness within ourselves.
Phil
Posted at 04:48h, 13 SeptemberGreat inspirational post and a truly amazing quote. Bottom line it’s better to have made the attempt and failed than to never to have tried. That’s why I joined CWA this cycle. I’m stoked!
-Phil
Donnie Law
Posted at 06:00h, 13 SeptemberI love the idea that there are some things we NEVER would’ve done if we knew beforehand how hard/difficult/dangerous/insane they were. But we’e always glad we did it after the fact.
Dave Stuart Jr.
Posted at 08:24h, 13 SeptemberI’m in the arena of trying to end freaking out in the K-12 education realm. Each day I’m doing the work of a 9th grade history/English teacher, and then in the afternoons I’m contributing to my blog at Teaching the Core and others online.
Here’s to being in the arena!
Francisco
Posted at 08:47h, 13 SeptemberThanks for your post. As an entrepreneur I am constantly faced with the gut check reality of whether or not I should work so hard and sacrifice my family´s time for what I believe in. There is no greater reward for me, though, as when we help a company get off the ground or create a massive turn around. The difference in the quality of life of the business owner and his employees makes it all worthwhile. I have stepped into the arena!!
Thanks.
Becky
Posted at 09:20h, 13 SeptemberThis quote has a very literal meaning for me. Getting into the horse show arena has been a dream of mine I haven’t been able to make work yet. The message can’t get much clearer than this; now I just need to make it happen once and for all!
Lorena
Posted at 14:42h, 13 SeptemberToday I had a reminder that being in the arena isn’t always very fun or easy. I had a hard but honest conversation with someone to tell them that things weren’t working out. I’m not sure how I could have done it any differently but I know he hurt. So as Brene Brown says, I’m in a bit of a “shame storm” and yet I also know it was the right thing to do. Thanks for being in the arena with me.
Zarelsie
Posted at 21:25h, 16 SeptemberHi Scott, thank you for your wonderfully inspirational post. I use your site to “feed my mind” with inspiration every day. Isn’t it funny that the lights go on in our minds when one day we suddenly realise that we don’t have to be the winners or losers in the arena, we just have to be PRESENT, to experience the magic? I realised that I do not need to have the greatest blog on the planet or be the best writer, I just have to have a blog and write, to be PRESENT and participate in connecting to live my legend. Greetings from downunder in New Zealand.
Bryce
Posted at 17:54h, 17 SeptemberI signed up for the how to connect with anyone course – not fully understanding what to expect. But I know I’ve jumped into the arena and I’m running towards the bulls. I can’t wait to see where I end up throughout this journey, and to hear other’s stories along the way.
Matt
Posted at 18:11h, 17 SeptemberGreat example of your experience running with the bulls. We cannot reach our goals simply running away from something. We have to run towards it with all our energies and abilities.
Carolina
Posted at 05:56h, 18 SeptemberThanks Scott
I think that our fears are like the bulls,pretty scary but we still have to fight them. To live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, to have the strength to start all over again.
Tom
Posted at 07:05h, 18 SeptemberI left the corporate world 5 years ago this month. I have been a full time musician writing and recording over 30 songs and playing with some of the best musicians in the country. I now am in the process of developing a program for self development and that can tie into my music. I love all of your posts and you are helping me to motivate and inspire myself to make this next level a reality
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